So the match I'd started this post with finally fell through around the end of March. The IPs seemed great, but they were very insistent on going by whatever their clinic told them, and had me go there for a total of 7 trips for 'monitoring' because my lining never got as thick as they wanted, which is confusing because it was all ONLY for the medical screening. I had to finally put my foot down and tell them that if the clinic didn't approve me i was leaving the match, which is exactly what happened. It took over 2 months of 'screening' appointments for the clinic to decide I wasn't 'a suitable candidate'.
I have a new couple now, and I talked to the IM on Friday, and she seems wonderful! The clinic finally approved my records last week, and my hubby and I have an appointment for the psych eval on Friday, mostly because just after our last eval (in January) we decided we're getting a divorce (all amicable, of course!) so that eval won't count, so to speak. Hopefully everything goes well and we can get this show on the road again.
The clinic is in CT, which is at least an hour from me, depending on how we get there, so I'm a little excited for that. My best friend is such a great support, and she's been going with me to every appointment. I hope you all are doing well!