Ok a nurse friend of mine that works for the New Family Services at our hosptial wanted me to try a new cream they had samples of. They usually give it to people that have lost thir babies so she has been unable to get feedback. It is called Cabocream. You can buy some at www.cabocreme.com. It is amazing. If you want to just relieve some of the pain of engorgement you rub it on breast tissue not nipples one time a day, if you want to dry up you rub it four times a day. I had some engorgement and pain on Monday used it 4 times that day, took away the pain completely, the next day I used it twice and it took away the fullness and by wednesday I was back to normal. Awesome stuff. It is all natural made of cucumber, grape seed and cabbage oils. You have to try it if you are drying up.