You hit the nail right on the head! I am talking about what happens for the rest of each families life after the delivery is done. With my situation, I've only seen the boys 3 times. It might have been more but we moved from NC to TX, so the distance makes it very difficult to go for a quick bite to eat. We are "friends" on FB so when they do post family pictures, I get to see those. So I'm treaded more like a distant relative and I'm fine with that.