I'm with Peter. I am a gay female and I felt sick when I read that people were referring to my sexuality as my "lifestyle" - excuse ME? Is being straight YOUR lifestyle?
Ask your DH - when did you make the choice to be straight? Let me guess...he DIDNT. Well guess what? Gay people don't make the choice to be gay, either.
I also felt a little sick when reading things like "oh so and so doesn't have a problem with gays, just doesn't agree with what happens behind closed doors." GAG. My homosexuality is not ALL about sex. Is your relationship entirely sex-based? Well, mine isn't, either.
I am horrified that in this day and age, it's STILL OKAY for people to be blatantly and openly homophobic. It really is the last "acceptable" form of being a bigot, and it just does NOT sit well with me.