Im a rebel,
I did dialate to 3cm but baby A was breech (feet down) I believe, so c-section was the opition.
I did bleed vaginally but not much.
I did use a tampon, not much after the hospital, I HATE pads.
I don't know how long I waited to have sex, but IMO if you are not bleeding and you feel good, do what you want. ( I am not a doctor-- LOL!)
How are you feeling?
I know after one of my kid's births... it seemed we didn't wait as long as we were supposed to.
It's just funny, I always want it when I can't have it.. then when I can it's not such a big deal. So I kind of want to wait so it will be a big deal again. It's been forever, because I didn't expect to be hospitalized when I was. So I went an extra week without it before the babies were born.
I'm feeling pretty good. Just still sore enough that it kind of hurts to think about it. KWIM? I think I'm pretty much done bleeding. But now that I've said that, it will probably start up again.
I'm definitely a dilator and I dialte for weeks before as well.
Definitely major surgery!!! I was told 4-6 weeks. I am nervous with how sore i still am with my incision site and it seems to be worse at night.