I highly suggest you find an OB who delivers at a different hospital. I delivered the twins at St. Vincents and it was awful! All during my labor (which was fantastic) they told all of us that it would be fine to have both IPs, my husband and my doula in the OR for the delivery. When I was almost fully dialated, with no meds, the charge nurse decided that I could only have one person in the OR with me. I was in no condition to argue and she knew it. My poor IPs and my husband had to decide who would go in. They ended up deciding that one of the IPs would go in with me and the other was allowed to watch the delivery through a windwow. My husband was left in the labor room not knowing what the hell was happening to me. He is completely traumatized from it. To the point he isn't sure he can handle doing another surrogacy. He is the most amazing support person during the whole pregnancy but especially labor and delivery and having me torn away from him at the very end, and not knowing if I was okay, was horrible for him. He tried to follow me into the OR and the nurse physically shoved him out. And, the Drs and nurses were fighting in the OR about the decision. Actually yelling at eachother. It was super stressful and scary for me and I stopped dialating at 9.5 because of it. It turned what was supposed to be a very magical, beautiful moment into a very stressful, traumatizing event. It was so upsetting, I am actually shaking right now just thinking about it.