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Should I Change Surrogate?

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jerecowong    0

Factors:

5 PGS normal embryos using proved donor eggs.

First FET failed with BFN. Second FET result will come in next week.

I am so restless: 1) the agent and the surrogate don't get along; 2)the surrogate did miss the baseline test because she did not take the BCP accordingly, but i think she is taking meds accordingly after the failed baseline assessment.

Question: Should I change the surrogate if the 2nd FET fails?

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beachalice    24

Hello and welcome!

It's too bad to hear you're getting frustrated this early in the process.

Here's a question for you.  Obviously you're hoping for a baby.  But are you hoping right now that this transfer didn't work so that you have an excuse to cancel the contract?

If it doesn't feel right, then follow your gut.  But be sure to check the language of your contract to be sure you can terminate the relationship after 2 transfers. 

Best wishes

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jerecowong    0

Thanks bechalice.

Right now, I am hoping the transfer works.If it works,  I will put up with all  the frustrations.

If this transfer fails, I will only have 3 embryos left.  Instead have the current surrogate try the third time, I think, it will be better to have 3 embryos available for the new surrogate.

 

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