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Thanks for your help in this question. My mom wanted me to ask this because she has my 19 and 16 year old brother's still living with her and my Dad. My 19 year old is dating this 17 year old immature girl and wants her to spend the night in his bed every weekend and sees nothing wrong with it. My mom says no way! It has caused a huge fight in the family so she wanted me to ask you all how you all feel about it with your children when they grow up and start dating.
Thanks so much!
Would you Allow this?
MultiQuote#2 Guest_ABCgs_*
Posted 30 December 2004 - 09:42 AM
OMG. There is NO WAY ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH that I would allow that to happen in my home. MAYBE (big maybe) I would allow the girl to sleep in a separate room (with a baby monitor hidden so I can hear if anyone makes a move! LOL) but there's no way I would allow a 17 year old girl to sleep in the same bed as my 19 year old son. NOPE. JMHO. If he wants her to sleep in his bed then he should find his own place to live. He's certainly old enough to do so!
(OMG, when did I turn into my mother? :rofl:/> )
(OMG, when did I turn into my mother? :rofl:/> )
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Posted 30 December 2004 - 09:48 AM
It depends upon the kids. If I had a son and his girlfriend was a ding bat, NO! I don't need that connected to my family tree. I voted I would allow it IF there were not younger children in the house.
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Posted 30 December 2004 - 10:17 AM
what is the legal age of consent in your state? if its 18 and mom allows it to happen and the girl's parents find out then mom and brother could both be in big trouble... there is also something called contributing to the delinquency of minors that mom and bro could be charged with if she is skipping school to have sex in mom's house and mom is allowing it - or if she sneaks out of her house at night/on the weekends to do it, or if, god forbid, she ends up pregnant... too many risks. i wouldn't do it! no way! and i would kill any other mother who would allow my daughter to do so at 17...
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Posted 30 December 2004 - 11:59 AM
Nothing wrong with in the car or behind bushes. LOL. For me the answer was no. My sister who is very religous is allowing her 18 you daughter and her boyfriend to sleep in the same room, he has his own bed. And she doesnt think anything is happening. UMMMMM hello you have allowed them to live together for a year now, and you think nothing is happening. It drives me crazy that she would allow it thinking that hormones are not going to happen just because they are religious. But that is just my opinion. I had sex young, not at home with my parents and I wont allow it here. We dont even allow DHs brother who is 20 and 19 yo girlfriend to sleep in the same room when they come to visit. Just not something my kids need to witness yet. OK I am done LOL didnt realize how passionate I am about this subject.
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Posted 30 December 2004 - 12:29 PM
When I was dating my ex(he is 4 years older than I am). I was allowed by my parents to spend New Yers Eve with his family. Everyone was spending the night. I got to sleep in a room with his Aunts and Gma and his girl cousins. No one was going anywhere.
My parents once in a while would let him stay the night. He slept in the living room and I was in my room. WE had hard wood floors so my parents would know if he tried to sneak in my room. We were good while we were at my house.We would find other places to do 'it' But I do regret having sex at such a young age.
My parents once in a while would let him stay the night. He slept in the living room and I was in my room. WE had hard wood floors so my parents would know if he tried to sneak in my room. We were good while we were at my house.We would find other places to do 'it' But I do regret having sex at such a young age.
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Posted 30 December 2004 - 12:38 PM
Isnt it technically rape ...If they have sex...and you know they do...right? Also you are contributing to it a nd can also get in trouble....Others are right they will find a way to do it either way...I always did but even after I had a baby at 18 my mom still did not allow the father to sleep in the same bed...Then I was annoyed ...but now I am a little older and completely understand...and would do the same thing. I think it is a bad idea.