First son was natural now 2nd via surrogate, missing the "experience"
Posted 03 January 2012 - 09:05 AM
I don't want to sound ungrateful or anything but there are times I feel sad that I am missing the pregnancy things.
Anyone else out there go through this? Our little guy us starting to kick & part of me is sad that I will not experience that again.
Like I said at the end of the day I am forever grateful for this amazing blessing coming our way in April I just want to make sure that these feelings are "normal". Thanks you everyone, you have been so amazing throughout this journey.
Posted 03 January 2012 - 09:22 AM
Posted 03 January 2012 - 11:04 AM
Posted 03 January 2012 - 11:22 AM
I know there is nothing anyone can do to make you feel better, but I think most women feel sad at times they will not feel a baby move inside them again, at some point in their lives.
Posted 03 January 2012 - 12:06 PM
Posted 03 January 2012 - 02:24 PM
I can totally relate to where you are coming from. I was never able to get pregnant and we had our baby in October. I totally missed the experience, but was so grateful for the descriptions of what the hiccups and kicks felt like. Your feelings, IMO, are completely natural and normal. I wish that I could have had at least one time to experience it, but in your situation it has to be hard because you have had the experience and know what is different this time. Big hugs!!! It is so hard being an IM, but in April none of this will matter
I think you put this well! Right now, experiencing everything seems really important, but once your babies are born, it won't matter that you didn't feel them kick because you'll have so many firsts and so many great things every day that you'll get to experience. It is hard now, and that's understandable, but soon you'll have that baby in your arms and everything will have been worth it!
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