Posted 14 May 2012 - 12:45 PM
If you're not just getting to know each other a bit- if you're actually going to hash out some details to see if this could for sure be a match (which may have been done alredy, or may wait until a second meeting?), then you want to make sure you're all on the same page with the big things, like termination, selective reduction, # of babies you're willing to carry, how many embryos might be transferred (though that is sometimes left until transfer time and done w/ the RE's recommendation). Does the RE's office have a suggested comp plan or anything like that? Or have you already gone over some numbers to see if you're in agreement on that? It's kind of hard, not knowing what step you're on... and what's already been determined. Usually, if you're matched by an agency, they've already gone over most of these things, or it was in the profiles you read on each other, etc- so I don't know if that's something you've already done through the RE...? But, definitely be yourself and just see if you "click" with them and feel good about it!